Me & the 3-blind-dates...and he dumped me!?? (Finale)

1. Most unforgotten – My sis’s neighbour’s decorator’s lawyer brother. We hit it off right away – Weeeelllll, that was what I thought anyway. Wronged again. Blamed it on the only-sms-no-phone-call condition or perhaps because I said at the end of our first date (there was only a second date, then kaput!), “Paling teruk pun I boleh rekomenkan you to my friends apa..”. Heheheh..me being cheeky or a blabbermouth?
The nice thing was he walked me to my parked car even after I said you cannot stay to see me drove away (me - new driver there).
The not-so-nice thing: Once, I asked him what car he drove (an Iswara) since I’m running out of topics & car was weighing a lot on my mind (just got my car what!) & he said I’m materialistic! I picked my foods (never like veges much since I was a kid) – me fussy! I was like- You like ironing?! – me sexist! (refer to msgs below)
2. That long ago friend also arranged for me to meet this one particular Japanese graduate. Very confident & modern-looking. Just imagine me in my all-time favourite baju kurung (I gave it away after that but not because the date was a failure). I even managed to convince a friend to wait up for him together in Subang Parade (I keep coming back there..hm…). He was wearing a Bermuda, with spiky hair etc. He talked about tennis, surfing blahblah…going back hometown once a year for Raya only (again Kelantanese). I told him straight away in a phone call later (he kept calling – *sigh!*)- We’re not meant to be together…
Funny thing I remember – no air-cond in his car but he was chivalrous enough to send me back (after he had his lunch while I just had a drink – cannot ate anything!) home where my mother was waiting! No lah, she just arrived at my bro’s place. Not long after that I moved to Ampang...
3. Another new classmate – arranged for 2 couples date completed with kids! Spoilt coz
1st: I asked about his further study plan (when he’s actually already working on his master) – It’s only proper I thought since we’re in the same profession. Wronged again!
2nd: At Subang Parade, (Heheh! I remember the details) my friend tried at every opportunity to let us be together to talk in privacy while she pretend to chase after her kids (lovely kids!) but he sticked to the hubby…& I was left struggling to kept my composure & alone! Never to repeat that!
The nice thing was he asked for my number at the end of the day.
Not so nice thing – he never called – why bother?
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He dumped me!?? (first time ever)

(rad: salam. I am curious on what happen to u. Of course, academic interest only-Blah!blah! Who am I kidding?!)
Drvg. Later
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I’m fine. It’s jus dat I know dat ur not intrstd in me… n I don’t wanna be led on. Wats d point rite?
Bole. Mayb ur gvg me d wrong vibes. U know: Gardng, ironing – female stuff. I find dat very narrow minded n sexist. It really puts me off. I feel dat I don’t need 2 prove u anythg)
Ok. I’m not mad or anytg. I thgt those r d reasons 4 u not 2 b intrstd in me.
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salam. Y d silence? Tired of me alrdy? (rad: Juz thnkg abt u! Gonna ask d same thg)
M hvg slight headache. Got 2 do sm wrk, later ‘k? (rad: kind of mis our msg session –am I alone ere?)
Me 2! Only dis mrng I feel dat I sort missing smthg, :-) later!
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(rad: salam. Ok or stil not ok?) Ok dah.
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(Hi – don’t knw what wer u thnkg – give me a clue, hint or whatevr) Plain moody! No fault of yours! Sori, but this is what I am. Total jerk.
I’m ok wth othrs. It’s juz I don’t feel like smsing. Tmrw im goin 2 melaka. Stil moody, better go now b4 anytg hppns. Gdnite.
(I gave up!! Really gave up!)
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I’m very sorry. Very hectic d whole day plus a visit 2 IXX. U want 2 know wat hppnd? Nothg-dats d prob. I feel d rltnshp is heading nowhere.

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P/s: Am i that pathetic? The reason why I kept those msgs - a lesson learnt - wish somebody could point me on where did I go wrong?
I'm not going to write on this theme anymore - this is the final installment. Life is good...

On life blessings:
I felt bad because I had no shoes until I met a man with no feet. (Anon)